December 29, 2022 John A. Teske After a long intimacy with someone, one has learned a lot, both about oneself and about another. Part of what you learn about each other are things not a lot of other people know, and even things of which you were not previously aware about yourself, that another now knows. When such a relationship ends, one needs to process, to think about, and to digest many things about both self and other, with oneself, as in therapy or journaling, but also